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[Muchloveria]

[Cecilia]

There's a thread about this here http://www.amywineho...ic/19691-blake/

[Bogart]

 

Hey Muchloveria, I don't mean to be rude but please check out it there is already a thread about what you are going to post so to keep the forum organized. sometimes there is a lot of info about one subject so it's better to put it all together in order to find easily the threads and info when you are looking for them. so if someone else around the web (or one of us) is looking for something specific, it's not all over the place. and you, me or them will not miss a thing.

 

I'm telling you.. I came to this section to see if there was something new but so many posts without info are confusing me. I thought some of them were new but they are not so it's kinda messy to post like this. Again, I dont mean to be rude but this is not facebook like to share stuff all over the place. Let's try to keep this forum a place were you can read useful info and don't bother someone else's research.

 

Thank you

[Muchloveria]

Hey Muchloveria, I don't mean to be rude but please check out it there is already a thread about what you are going to post so to keep the forum organized. sometimes there is a lot of info about one subject so it's better to put it all together in order to find easily the threads and info when you are looking for them. so if someone else around the web (or one of us) is looking for something specific, it's not all over the place. and you, me or them will not miss a thing.

 

I'm telling you.. I came to this section to see if there was something new but so many posts without info are confusing me. I thought some of them were new but they are not so it's kinda messy to post like this. Again, I dont mean to be rude but this is not facebook like to share stuff all over the place. Let's try to keep this forum a place were you can read useful info and don't bother someone else's research.

 

Thank you

I asked for help stating I could not search my old posts and the search wasn't working if you look on the support section so that's why I may have posted old stuff again. Sorry but also it isn't that bad because it still shows footage others may have not seen besides you. I left the forum for a few years because a few members were being snobbish and strict and this mood seems to still exist on my Facebook I had a chat with many people who will not become members on the forum because they have seen negative treatment between members we need to keep a friendly environment and try to welcome all and not get too caught up on perfection this forum doesn't have as many members as one would expect for a Winehouse forum and I always wonder why but based on comments I get on my Facebook and tumblr I kinda have the idea that people feel they are scared to post because they have been told they are posting wrong...

 

Also some of Amy's known friends made comments on how odd the forum can be on perfection one individual without naming names said some members are ruthless and sent me a message referencing your above comment saying she/he enjoyed the videos I posted that weren't seen before and was shocked I got reprimanded and to keep posting don't be dissuaded by negativity so although I understand your comment please remember others find this behavior judgemental and off putting. You made me feel bad to be honest but when I got that message in my tumblr today from Amy's best friend I was happy and decided to tell you how you made me feel. Especially because the posts were due to the search not working for me I did try to check it was a simple mistake as my support question shows I love this forum and get upset when I'm judged ...I mean we don't comment negatively on the picture section when the same picture is posted hundreds of times. I try to respect the forum as much as possible so please realize this before you "grade" me again thanks

[Wino]

^^ Thats a shame but interesting all the same.

[Bogart]

I asked for help stating I could not search my old posts and the search wasn't working if you look on the support section so that's why I may have posted old stuff again. Sorry but also it isn't that bad because it still shows footage others may have not seen besides you. I left the forum for a few years because a few members were being snobbish and strict and this mood seems to still exist on my Facebook I had a chat with many people who will not become members on the forum because they have seen negative treatment between members we need to keep a friendly environment and try to welcome all and not get too caught up on perfection this forum doesn't have as many members as one would expect for a Winehouse forum and I always wonder why but based on comments I get on my Facebook and tumblr I kinda have the idea that people feel they are scared to post because they have been told they are posting wrong...

 

Also some of Amy's known friends made comments on how odd the forum can be on perfection one individual without naming names said some members are ruthless and sent me a message referencing your above comment saying she/he enjoyed the videos I posted that weren't seen before and was shocked I got reprimanded and to keep posting don't be dissuaded by negativity so although I understand your comment please remember others find this behavior judgemental and off putting. You made me feel bad to be honest but when I got that message in my tumblr today from Amy's best friend I was happy and decided to tell you how you made me feel. Especially because the posts were due to the search not working for me I did try to check it was a simple mistake as my support question shows I love this forum and get upset when I'm judged ...I mean we don't comment negatively on the picture section when the same picture is posted hundreds of times. I try to respect the forum as much as possible so please realize this before you "grade" me again thanks

 

i didn't judge you OMG WHAT??! grade you??? what are you talking about? i was being friendly. i wasn't rude. i wasn't like "hey stop with your shit" or something like that cause posting and sharing it's the aim of the forum. rules are meant to be followed and broken. same as society.

 

you are messing up, confusing terms. if you are ultrasensitive cause other people have treated you bad, well i'm sorry but don't mess with me when i was just being friendly with you and with the moderators and administrators cause they are the one's who have to organized everything. i didn't know the search thing wasn't working for you so... Well if the forum should change the rules well then you should tell the admins what you are telling me cause being just upset and attacking me as if i was the problem doesnt solve anything. start a thread about it cause if there is a problem, we should solve it all together

 

now YOU are being rude to me with all that saying people said i was rude etc... if someone thinks i'm rude then that person should come and tell me. please don't start with all that "she said... he said..."

 

i didn't want to sound rude, ok? i feel bad because i made you feel bad. that wasn't what i expected. i was just being honest. i feel like amy right now. when you are honest you are labeled as rude. when i was just saying that you should ckeck out. i post and check out but sometimes they tell me like "well it was already posted" and it's alright. it's a matter of character and personality. no one has banned you to post. i think you are overeacting because you were treated bad before. it's alright but don't take  it that way. it was not a big deal what i said.  i mean, by judging your reaction it seems like a insulted you or something like that. i was far away from it.

 

i follow your tumblr and i miss your posts. in fact, your tumblr inspired me to make mine so why don't we "hug" like a vitual hug and stop this pointless discussion?

 

ps: just started a thread about this here 

[Muchloveria]

i didn't judge you OMG WHAT??! grade you??? what are you talking about? i was being friendly. i wasn't rude. i wasn't like "hey stop with your shit" or something like that cause posting and sharing it's the aim of the forum. rules are meant to be followed and broken. same as society.

you are messing up, confusing terms. if you are ultrasensitive cause other people have treated you bad, well i'm sorry but don't mess with me when i was just being friendly with you and with the moderators and administrators cause they are the one's who have to organized everything. i didn't know the search thing wasn't working for you so... Well if the forum should change the rules well then you should tell the admins what you are telling me cause being just upset and attacking me as if i was the problem doesnt solve anything. start a thread about it cause if there is a problem, we should solve it all together

now YOU are being rude to me with all that saying people said i was rude etc... if someone thinks i'm rude then that person should come and tell me. please don't start with all that "she said... he said..."

i didn't want to sound rude, ok? i feel bad because i made you feel bad. that wasn't what i expected. i was just being honest. i feel like amy right now. when you are honest you are labeled as rude. when i was just saying that you should ckeck out. i post and check out but sometimes they tell me like "well it was already posted" and it's alright. it's a matter of character and personality. no one has banned you to post. i think you are overeacting because you were treated bad before. it's alright but don't take it that way. it was not a big deal what i said. i mean, by judging your reaction it seems like a insulted you or something like that. i was far away from it.

i follow your tumblr and i miss your posts. in fact, your tumblr inspired me to make mine so why don't we "hug" like a vitual hug and stop this pointless discussion?

ps: just started a thread about this here

I just think that when someone starts out a comment with "I'm not trying to be rude" that he or she already understands that what they are about to type may offend the person, just to be honest. But it's all good I'm not overly sensitive, actually the opposite I am told. I really just replied to your comment because it was just an example of what I chatted with others about and thought I should put my two cents in. I just mentioned that somebody (who I respect their privacy so I didn't name) because it was more of an example to my claim about forum behavior; plus it helped to show I wasn't being overly emotional and that others felt like-minded. All in all its all good not really a big deal just wish the forum had more members and people have told me that they won't join or unjoined because they felt "graded" on their posts. I think the safe bet for all members is to let the administrators say something and that's all


Thanks though for your clarification I appreciate that and follow/reblog from your tumblr often. Much love xx