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[JTWR]

My comments aren’t in reference to the article btw.
It’s to the comments within the post.

[melani]

And of course, everyone tells stories from the way that works for them.

Are you implying that Tyler didn't tell the truth?

[JTWR]

Are you implying that Tyler didn't tell the truth?

No but one persons truth isn’t the whole truth, that doesn’t mean someone’s lying.
Understand there are no sides to pick when it comes to particular people.
We all meant something to each other despite any fall outs.
The girls and Nick were so important to Amy, as was Tyler, until she passed.
I just called out the comments. It’s never simple and I felt they dismissed the love those people shared right until she passed.
If anyone says that love didn’t exist until the end, that’s a lie.
I haven’t read any books. I just know everyone has gaps.
Everyone fluctuated in and out of Amy’s life at different times for different reasons.
Everyone had their own shit and demons as well.

But none of it matters. Everyone lost. We all share that.

[JTWR]

So very simply none of the bollocks matters. Amy matters. That’s it.

[melani]

No but one persons truth isn’t the whole truth, that doesn’t mean someone’s lying.
Understand there are no sides to pick when it comes to particular people.
We all meant something to each other despite any fall outs.
The girls and Nick were so important to Amy, as was Tyler, until she passed.
I just called out the comments. It’s never simple and I felt they dismissed the love those people shared right until she passed.
If anyone says that love didn’t exist until the end, that’s a lie.
I haven’t read any books. I just know everyone has gaps.
Everyone fluctuated in and out of Amy’s life at different times for different reasons.
Everyone had their own shit and demons as well.
But none of it matters. Everyone lost. We all share that.

People do indeed have their own truths. I'm glad Amy had people in her life who loved her, and I'm sorry for your loss.

[arshaun]

And of course, everyone tells stories from the way that works for them.

Sounds like you got a problem with Tyler's version of events?

[JTWR]

Sounds like you got a problem with Tyler's version of events?

Not really. I’m just stating that I think people tell things from their own perspectives and often that means it’s not objective.
I would hope that people that read about her understand that. My view is that or more so my hope is that almost 15 years later people just miss her, love her and find peace. All the selling of items and stories are long.
They will never explain who Amy was, she was complex, all the names referenced were complex, we all had intense and complex relationships at different times. We loved each other and had fall outs and the politics and nonsense around this really removed the ability for us all to reflect and celebrate her in the way she deserved. That’s my view.

So no problem; but nobody has ever told the story objectively either by choice or by lack of ability to do so.
Everybody has gaps. Things get left out. That in no way undermines the importance of who they were to each other.
It’s just facts. I hope everyone has had the same levels of growth and reflection and think how mad it is we are all 40 plus now and how much life has evolved since 2011 and then thinks fuck me, it’s so fucking mental and sad Amy didn’t get to do that with us.

[arshaun]

Not really. I’m just stating that I think people tell things from their own perspectives and often that means it’s not objective.
I would hope that people that read about her understand that. My view is that or more so my hope is that almost 15 years later people just miss her, love her and find peace. All the selling of items and stories are long.
They will never explain who Amy was, she was complex, all the names referenced were complex, we all had intense and complex relationships at different times. We loved each other and had fall outs and the politics and nonsense around this really removed the ability for us all to reflect and celebrate her in the way she deserved. That’s my view.

So no problem; but nobody has ever told the story objectively either by choice or by lack of ability to do so.
Everybody has gaps. Things get left out. That in no way undermines the importance of who they were to each other.
It’s just facts. I hope everyone has had the same levels of growth and reflection and think how mad it is we are all 40 plus now and how much life has evolved since 2011 and then thinks fuck me, it’s so fucking mental and sad Amy didn’t get to do that with us.

 

Thanks for clarifying. It's truly sad that she never had the chance to do that with you.

 

We all appreciate you sharing "Get Over It" and "The Real Me". You've been through a lot, and I hope life is smiling upon you these days.

[eoneal71]

The user JTWR is not the real John the White Rapper unless he has 2 accounts. The real guy goes by MrJLacey

[arshaun]

The user JTWR is not the real John the White Rapper unless he has 2 accounts. The real guy goes by MrJLacey

 

I think he has two accounts.

[arshaun]

 

 

I like the two songs you and Tyler did together.

 

https://www.youtube....h?v=uZ51ftnN9e4

https://www.youtube....h?v=4-02rcwiOBU