# Is Blake to blame? **URL:** \ **Category:** Archive\ **Created:** [July 2, 2008, 4:52pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766 "2008-07-02T16:52:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![holly89](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/h/8491ac/32.png) [@holly89](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/holly89)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2008, 10:52am UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/21 "2008-07-09T10:52:35Z")
Im not a Blake fan he looks like a scummer! But im a beliver that people are responsible for themselves and that Amy is a strong minded lady even though she is madly in love. She seems to have an addictive personality and has always taken drugs (even if it was only weed at first) so crack and the like has proberly become more avalble to her, maybe since she has been with Blake, or maybe since she has been more famous whatever Amy still has the final decision. Blake has been away for a long time and Amy has declined more still. I agree she should get rid of him (even if because hes just so damn ugly!) but he isnt to blame for her drug addiction or strange behaviour ---
**Author:** ![Rockesquirrel](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/rockesquirrel/32/84_2.png) [@Rockesquirrel](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/Rockesquirrel)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2008, 3:14pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/22 "2008-07-09T15:14:40Z")
Blake is not to blame. Amy Winehouse had a myriad of problems, way before she became famous. Blake, unfortunately, is a predator, he knows how to seek the perfect victim. Get someone with low self-esteem, mental and emotional problems, perfect disciple, that’s how some cults were created. Blah,blah,blah, the record industry is not a social program, so many performers come thru the doors with problems and issues which make Winehouse look like an angel. Angst makes money. Armchair psychiatry time: I believe Winehouse was traumatized by her parents’ divorce. In her mind, she’s sticking with it no matter what, the outside forces say. If people would let her alone, as far as Blake is concerned, she can see for herself. If people keep criticizing Blake, she’ll be more determined to stay with the guy. Yes, he’s the Antichrist and lower than the gum on your shoe, but Amy loves him. ---
**Author:** ![DontClipMyWings](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/d/dfb087/32.png) [@DontClipMyWings](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/DontClipMyWings)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2008, 10:43pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/23 "2008-07-09T22:43:01Z")
i HATE blake some people might say she can make her own desisions but the truth is, amy is niave and has extremly low self esteeme he is a manipulative piece of \*\*\*\* that uses her for her money and doesnt want her to give up drugs because he knows if she does she will see sense and he wont have money, he will just be any other drug addict the reason amys behaviour hasnt improved whilst he has been in prison is because, just because blakes not around doesnt mean the addiction isnt around ---
**Author:** ![erickonasis](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/erickonasis/32/79_2.png) [@erickonasis](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/erickonasis)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2008, 8:45am UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/24 "2008-07-12T08:45:23Z")
Well I Voted Yes…She Always Seemed to have the tendencies but she just took it to another level when she got with him ---
**Author:** ![Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/Strawberrie)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2009, 8:28pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/25 "2009-06-06T20:28:56Z")
Of course! If it was not his fault, why is she much healthier now than when she was with him? ---
**Author:** ![antceleb12](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/antceleb12/32/61_2.png) [@antceleb12](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/antceleb12)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 2:09pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/26 "2009-06-07T14:09:01Z")
I blame Blake for introducing bad habits and wrecking her heart. I blame Amy’s heart for blindly falling for a fool. I blame Amy for her weakness that has ironicallyy led to such beautiful music. ---
**Author:** ![WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/winehousefan08/32/96_2.png) [@WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/WinehouseFAN08)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:44pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/27 "2009-06-07T19:44:00Z")
> [@blakmamba76](#): > > She places it on him because she doesn’t want to be held responsibile for her actions. She is being the classic druggie manipulative and getter more evil by the second. I hope she lives beyond this because I miss her. 100% AGREE.. she made an adults decision. ---
**Author:** ![Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/Strawberrie)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:46pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/28 "2009-06-07T19:46:12Z")
> [@WinehouseFAN08](#): > > 100% AGREE.. she made an adults decision. What would you do if you girl/boyfriend said to you - Hey, test this, it’s cool. I know you love it! and she or he was holding a crackpipe.. And you was feeling down. Please! ---
**Author:** ![ashlee](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/ashlee/32/97_2.png) [@ashlee](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/ashlee)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/29 "2009-06-07T19:50:00Z")
It’s not 100% blake’s fault…yeah he had the drugs and gave them to her, but she asked and took them…it’s not 50/50…because if he had no fucking drugs with him she wouldn’t take them..it’s like 70% blake 30% Amy. LOL stupid numbers ---
**Author:** ![WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/winehousefan08/32/96_2.png) [@WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/WinehouseFAN08)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/30 "2009-06-07T19:50:19Z")
> [@ChibiUsa](#): > > What would you do if you girl/boyfriend said to you - Hey, test this, it’s cool. I know you love it! and she or he was holding a crackpipe.. And you was feeling down. > > Please! I dont know untill I’m put in that position, but I think I’m strong enough to say no especially if I have seen the affects it has had one them. There are other ways to heal your emotions x 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/Strawberrie)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:55pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/31 "2009-06-07T19:55:58Z")
> [@WinehouseFAN08](#): > > I dont know untill I’m put in that position, but I think I’m strong enough to say no especially if I have seen the affects it has had one them. Do you think a person who enjoy his/her life take drugs? ---
**Author:** ![WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/winehousefan08/32/96_2.png) [@WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/WinehouseFAN08)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:01pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/32 "2009-06-07T20:01:04Z")
> [@ChibiUsa](#): > > Do you think a person who enjoy his/her life take drugs? Im not sure to be honest, not being biast, but alot of people who smoke pot still enjoy their lives, its not impossible. Although Amy only started with smoking pot before harder drugs. Do you? x ---
**Author:** ![Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/Strawberrie)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:03pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/33 "2009-06-07T20:03:24Z")
> [@WinehouseFAN08](#): > > Im not sure to be honest, not being biast, but alot of people who smoke pot still enjoy their lives, its not impossible. Although Amy only started with smoking pot before harder drugs. Do you? x And how do you know that is true? People smoke pot when they think life is hopeless! ---
**Author:** ![WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/winehousefan08/32/96_2.png) [@WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/WinehouseFAN08)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:06pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/34 "2009-06-07T20:06:24Z")
My parents smoke pot and so does my brother and many famliy friends. x My brother actually has done alot worse and got himsekf in bad situations but not with pot x ---
**Author:** ![ashlee](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/ashlee/32/97_2.png) [@ashlee](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/ashlee)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:07pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/35 "2009-06-07T20:07:23Z")
> [@ChibiUsa](#): > > And how do you know that is true? > > People smoke pot when they think life is hopeless! Hey! let’s calm down Chibi:-P I smoke pot…not all the time though…and when I do it, it’s not because I feel useless or hopeless…not at all. It’s like when I go out with my friends and have some drinks to have fun, but to feel calmer or silly. to have some laughs with my mates. These are my reasons…not making this an universal thruth. ---
**Author:** ![WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/winehousefan08/32/96_2.png) [@WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/WinehouseFAN08)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:09pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/36 "2009-06-07T20:09:45Z")
> [@ashlee](#): > > Hey! let’s calm down Chibi:-P > I smoke pot…not all the time though…and when I do it, it’s not because I feel useless or hopeless…not at all. It’s like when I go out with my friends and have some drinks to have fun, but to feel calmer or silly. to have some laughs with my mates. > These are my reasons…not making this an universal thruth. thankyou 😉 I think you’ll find a few people on this forum do and Im sure not all of them smoke it because they feel lifes hopeless! :] x x ---
**Author:** ![Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Strawberrie](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/Strawberrie)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:10pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/37 "2009-06-07T20:10:07Z")
> [@ashlee](#): > > Hey! let’s calm down Chibi:-P > I smoke pot…not all the time though…and when I do it, it’s not because I feel useless or hopeless…not at all. It’s like when I go out with my friends and have some drinks to have fun, but to feel calmer or silly. to have some laughs with my mates. > These are my reasons…not making this an universal thruth. But.. Pot is pot! And that is a drug! ---
**Author:** ![WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/winehousefan08/32/96_2.png) [@WinehouseFAN08](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/WinehouseFAN08)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:14pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/38 "2009-06-07T20:14:20Z")
> [@ChibiUsa](#): > > But.. Pot is pot! > And that is a drug! I don’t get the point your trying to make sorry,? It might just be because I’ve been bought up around it so dont see it as big a problem as you do? x ---
**Author:** ![erickonasis](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/erickonasis/32/79_2.png) [@erickonasis](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/erickonasis)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:15pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/39 "2009-06-07T20:15:10Z")
wow whos bringing back all these old threads ---
**Author:** ![Winehousedrunk](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/user_avatar/www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/winehousedrunk/32/108_2.png) [@Winehousedrunk](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/u/Winehousedrunk)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:15pm UTC](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766/40 "2009-06-07T20:15:11Z")
> [@ChibiUsa](#): > > Do you think a person who enjoy his/her life take drugs? Now that _is_ a good question! I say maybe, in some _particular_ cases, **yes**. But they’d be the exception to the rule, the rule being: **no**. If a person who enjoys his/her life _could_ take drugs, then they’d probably not be the western _chemical_ hard drugs, but the wholly _natural_ drugs as used by Amazone - and other South American Indians, which these peoples have traditionally done for centuries, and without any known problems, _unlike_ the western chemical hard drugs, which are expensive and _dangerous_ to use. When I think of who _could_ enjoy life _and_ use drugs, then I’d think of these Indians, and they’d be the exception. [Previous page](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766.md?page=1) [Next page](https://www.amywinehouseforum.co.uk/t/is-blake-to-blame/2766.md?page=3)