I hate Blake Fielder Civil. I think he’s scum and I honestly believe Amy’s decline can be blamed on him completely. I’d like to know what the people of this forum think.
Is Blake to blame for Amy’s decline?
- Yes
- No
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I think that she’s a grown woman who can make her own decisions
When she was with the guy before - Alex? - she seemed happy. She did well at her gigs and she wasn’t always in the paper for her drug addictions and messy life style. Then as soon as Blake comes back into her life - BANG! - the Amy we see now began. I can’t help but think it’s all his fault. Yes she’s a grown woman but she relies on him far too much. Their relationship - to me, looking in from the outside - seems very, very unhealthy and I get the impression she’ll go along with whatever Blake says. She used to seem so independant and strong but now she’s turned into this pathetic little girl who can’t even sing a bloody song without mentioning her dickfaced husbands prison number.
She places it on him because she doesn’t want to be held responsibile for her actions. She is being the classic druggie manipulative and getter more evil by the second. I hope she lives beyond this because I miss her.
Blake has been inside now for 9 months or so and I do not see any improvement in the way Amy leads her life. I think she needs to make her own mistakes, there are things I dislike about both of them and perhaps some would say they deserve one another. It seems a destructive relationship but they both share the blame. I remember Mitch saying that Amy does as she wants and you can’t persuade her to do something she doesn’t want therefore they made their bed they will have to lie in it unfortunately.
Also I remember reading another article again I think it was Mitch that said before drugs got hold of him Blake was a nice boy doing well at school in fact in the photos I’ve seen looked a bit of a geek, so perhaps drugs are to blame and not the individual.
I agree.
I don’t think it’s fair to blame him for everything because if Blake got together with another person and not Amy, he wouldn’t necessarily have the same effect on that person.
Couldn’t agree more.
she’s openly admitted that while she was with alex she was constantly seeing blake behind his back. he hasnt been out of her life since early 2005. the thing thats to blame is drugs, and i guess you could blame blake for that, however blake was on drugs when they were 1st together and amy didnt become a raging addict so who knows whats really done it?
dont judge blake till hes out of prison
Drugs is the glue that holds Amy and Blake together. Amy knows this, “If I go, I’ll lose my baby…” Blake and his cronies constantly humiliate her, thru the press, WHILE HE’S IN PRISON. Telling the papers, those lovely wholesome pics and videos of Amy and Blake in their druggy bliss, that he’s leaving her, that mom of his contributing, and now the letter…" It’s up to Amy to take off the beer, heroin, crack and codependent rose-colored goggles.
I know I am repeating myself…If it wasn’t Blake it would have been somebody else…It is an issue inside herself.
he hasn’t helped but cannot be blamed for AMy’s actions, it’s her own doing.
He certainly has not helped but she is the one that choose to stay stuck in this cycle and she is the one that has to make the decision to get out.
I don’t blame him entirely…
I don’t think Blake is responsible for Amy taking drugs but he’s probably a bad influence.
I think Blake’s as TOXIC to Amy as any drug, maybe even moreso. He’s got some kinda cultlike grip on her heart and soul. Remember the pact they made about siucide if they couldn’t be together. IMO, he’s such a chickenshit, selfish bastard, he’d NEVER take himself OUT. What a pity!!! I think back to when Amy said how when she drinks too much or overdoes it on drugs, he tells her the next day what she did… isn’t it funny that he’s ALWAYS the ONE in CONTROL and KNOWS what’s going on, but lets her lose ALL control of her facilities!!! The BASTARD!!! I HATE HIM!!!
i don’t think the blame game goes anywhere. some people take a hit of whatever and it’s like, hey, i have finally found what’s going to make all the difference in my life. others take the same hit, and could take it or leave it.
Come to think of it, does blame even matter at this point?
she say “love you blakey”, i hear “love being drugged-out-of-my-mind with you blakey”
Well, Back to Black wouldn’t be possible if it wasn’t Blake, on an inspirational level.
Now, he seems to be a terrible influence to her and it’s a shame she doesn’t get it.