I always kept hope though, hoping Amy would get some help (after Blake I mean) but time showed us she didn't.. which still is a shame. But in the end, it's Amy's own fault, even though that may sound harsh to some of the die hard (naive) fans that are reading this post right now.
I agree with you. I'm tired of denial, seriously. Why not say things as they are, whether rough or not. Amy did it all her life. People should take example on her.
You're right Phil it was on her Amy's birthday the time she failed to turn up and whe was in a bad way I seem to recall she had a right go at Wino about her avatar that Amy thought she looked ugly in?? It got quite personal and but I put that down to Amy obviously in a bad place. The press were reporting she failed to turn up at her birthday but was obviously online that night.
I got the impression that Clare hit a raw nerve with Amy and told her some home truths.
Well, I was not on the forum at this time. I can imagine it was difficult to be a fan of Amy since 2004 and see things get worse day after day. For this I include Clare. But Amy was an adult, as noted @
Katausa, and in my opinion, in the case of Clare it was no longer an opinion but messages accusing the husband of her idol and judgment on the choice of Amy. (because in fact, Blake was the choice of Amy) Therefore, @
Elsie, Amy may have been injured by the pseudo Wino. Cause if she had read the posts of Clare, it's absolutely normal that she felt hurt and be judged on her personal life then it doesn't concern us, nobody here.
I don't say that because Amy is our idol, we must agree with every choice, and love her husband. Hate Blake if you want ... But Amy could read the forum, and you had to think before writing messages as brutal about the love of her life. If Clare had said: I don't know much about Blake but I don't particularly like him, I believe that Amy may have better ... I would not agree but it would be a matter of opinion. But say that he is an asshole, that Amy did wrong to marry him, that he should disappear from her life (despite the fact that Amy was totally in love with him ...) is judging.
I don't think Amy would have agreed that some don't like Blake and it would have hurt her to read it. But she didn't warn anyone else here that I know right? So it's probably because of the words that Clare has chosen by meddling in the private life of Amy, which in itself is tricky.
For the Wino history, in my opinion as an administrator it's inappropiate. Amy used it maybe once a while, but that doesn't entitle to all others to do so. I have the right to call me stupid, but I wouldn't let others treat me stupid, you know. Wino in the media world, was known to be the nickname of Amy when we talked alcohol / drugs and scandals. There are so many possible names, so beautiful of her lyrics ... on a fan forum, it's easily possible to have a name that is not used in the press to degrade Amy. Anyway, this is what I think. I understand some points of Clare (see that her favorite singer is killing herself slowly and be worried about it) but I understand the points of Amy more. (Feeling judged by the name and the hurtful messages about her own choices, about the man she loved etc..)
What kind of message this sends about the forum if the Administrator deems itself and gives itself a name like this. If however, Clare is reading this message, I want to tell you that I don't agree with your actions but I have nothing against you in particular. I think it's a great forum, well managed and why you should be proud. As for the rest, it's only my opinion I guess. It remains what it is though. I'm a person who has had
so many problems ... it taught me to open my mind to understand all the others, despite their illnesses, despite their reputation and above all it taught me not to judge others. This is one of my primal values and that is why I have never accused anyone of being responsible for the choices, actions and death of Amy.
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Some comments really went a tiny little bit too far.
